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Teach Your Parents Well Program

To obtain additional information, we have an alcohol education program, “Teach Your Parents Well” geared towards educating parents/adults on the dangers, consequences and social pitfalls of providing, encouraging or facilitating children in obtaining alcohol under the age of 21. This program is provided free of charge for civic, church, schools, etc. groups.

Signs and Symptoms of Drug Abuse

It is important to keep in mind that if a child shows any of the following symptoms, it does not necessarily mean that he or she is using drugs. The presence of some of these behaviors could be the product of adolescent stress. Others may be symptoms of depression or a host of other problems. Whatever the cause, they may warrant attention, especially if they persist or if they occur in a cluster. A mental health professional or a caring and concerned adult may help a youngster successfully overcome a crisis and develop more effective coping skills, often preventing further problems.

The key is change; it is important to watch for any significant changes in your child's physical appearance, personality, attitude or behavior.

Physical Signs

  • Loss of appetite, increase in appetite, any changes in eating habits, unexplained weight loss or gain.
  • Slowed or staggering walk; poor physical coordination.
  • Inability to sleep, awake at unusual times, unusual laziness.
  • Red, watery eyes; pupils larger or smaller than usual; blank stare.
  • Cold, sweaty palms; shaking hands.
  • Puffy face, blushing or paleness.
  • Smell of substance on breath, body or clothes.
  • Extreme hyperactivity; excessive talkativeness.
  • Runny nose; hacking cough.
  • Needle marks on lower arm, leg or bottom of feet.
  • Nausea, vomiting or excessive sweating.
  • Tremors or shakes of hands, feet or head.
  • Irregular heartbeat.

Behavioral Signs

  • Change in overall attitude/personality with no other identifiable cause.
  • Changes in friends; new hang-outs; sudden avoidance of old crowd; doesn't want to talk about new friends; friends are known drug users.
  • Change in activities or hobbies.
  • Drop in grades at school or performance at work; skips school or is late for school.
  • Change in habits at home; loss of interest in family and family activities.
  • Difficulty in paying attention; forgetfulness.
  • General lack of motivation, energy, self-esteem, "I don't care" attitude.
  • Sudden oversensitivity, temper tantrums, or resentful behavior.
  • Moodiness, irritability, or nervousness.
  • Silliness or giddiness.
  • Paranoia
  • Excessive need for privacy; unreachable.
  • Secretive or suspicious behavior.
  • Car accidents.
  • Chronic dishonesty.
  • Unexplained need for money, stealing money or items.
  • Change in personal grooming habits.
  • Possession of drug paraphernalia.

Alcohol Use Specific Symptoms: Clumsiness; difficulty walking; slurred speech; sleepiness; poor judgment; dilated pupils; possession of a false ID card.  Reprinted from American Council for Drug Education

What Should I Do?

Even when you see many of the signs and symptoms, this does not necessarily mean that your child has a substance abuse problem.  These signs may be indicators of other problems such as possible chronic illness or other health problems, peer adjustment, depression, allergies, eating disorder, hyperactivity, or teenage aggression.  Remember that many of these signs or symptoms may also be symptoms within the context of your individual adolescent's personality and current lifestyle.

When discussing your findings with your child, it is not necessary to make a conclusion about the behavior.  More importantly, talk to your child or to the health professional about exactly what you are seeing and the concern it is causing you as a parent.

Other resources:
Alcohol and Drug Council of North Carolina
3500 Westgate Drive, Suite 204
Durham, NC 27707
1-800-688-4232

www.alcoholdrughelp.org Information and Referral Service

www.family.samhsa.gov  Alcohol information for parents/adult providers 

www.thecoolspot.gov  Alcohol information aimed at middle school-aged teens

http://www.alcoholfreechildren.org  Initiative to prevent the use of alcohol by children ages 9 to 15 

www.dontserveteens.gov

 
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